Freakin Hallmark movies at 3 am. Making me think and shit. Not about the movies, because they're like paperback trash for t.v., but about Life.
Oooohhhh!!! With a capital L and EVERYTHING.
Isn't it amazing and mortifying and chest-clutchingly incredible that the most minute decisions can alter a life's entire direction? I think back to moments where I LITERALLY turned left instead of right and changed the course of my life path, simply by bumping into someone or witnessing an event. When I chose to pick up the phone and accept a job, I was led to meeting Patrick. I once selected chili instead of a sandwich at the zoo which gave me food poisoning that led to the discovery of a massive tumor on my ovary, right as we were discussing the idea of baby #3. When I made that rash decision to begin a blog 5 years ago, "just to keep a journal", I never knew it would lead me to dozens of friends that exist not only online, but in my day to day, physical life. I wonder how the actions I am taking right this very moment will influence my tomorrow, my future, and my family's lives...
Because they are, you know. They're all important. Nothing is too small to discount. Every person we allow into our hearts or hold at a distance becomes a thread in our life's tapestry. Every moment of gratitude for the goodness we see around us, or desperate plea for mercy from the devastation we are struggling through is what fuels the events of tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow... Even in death, our influence and mark remains; through the children we raise, the works we accomplish and the energy our presence has had upon the Earth.
I sit here absolutely awestruck at the enormity of the world, the insignificance that one person can seem to have upon it, and the reality that each of us is capable of immeasurable possibilities... I am so grateful to have the love that surrounds me. For my family and friends. For each of you that reaches out and brightens my day. I am content with my life but not stagnant. There are hopefully countless adventures in my future. But if today were my last in this body, I can honestly say that I have no regrets.
This is the stuff that goes through my head, night after night after night.
And now you know why I can't sleep.
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Tracey. This is extraordinary. I want to come over right this minute, across all this sea and all that land, and sit next to you, be part of your jiggling, zinging, deep-thinking energy and say, 'YEAH.' And 'Uh-huh.' And, 'You know it!' And feel so grateful to be there, to know you, to know that if I showed up this minute, with you never having met me in real life, you'd greet me with the widest smile, and that we wouldn't stop talking for DAYS.
These thoughts. Your thoughts. I am so thankful you wrote them. So glad for the paths you've taken and the words you have and share. Thank you, Tracey.
Awwww!!! My heart! Thank you, Helena. We would most definitely talk for days. We will talk someday, no matter what.
Would love to know what that Hallmark movie was that inspired you to write such a deep post! Right now I feel 'stuck' in my life and could use a gentle nudge!
So very, very true. I try to remember this on the days I struggle with parenthood or people in my life. Everything has happened and is happening for a reason.
Oh yes, these are the same reasons I am awake late, late at night, not able to fall asleep... seems the later it gets, the more I have to think about, the more I have to worry about. I get exactly what you mean. Thanks for sharing.
You know the sad thing? When I lay in bed and can't sleep, I take those thoughts running through my hand and I text myself notes...those notes are transformed into blog posts. Yeah, sick, I know.
Great. It's 1:30 a.m. and I'm catching up on my fave blogs and here you go talking about the L word... Looks like I won't be sleeping any time soon either. You're so right in that sometimes the smallest things can have such an impact on our journey. I suppose that's why they say it's about the journey, not the destination. I'm reading this post on the day that Steve Jobs died and I love the no regrets theme. I can so relate to that. Yeah, I think I'll be up pretty late...
Well, I for one am so happy you decided to start this blog. =)
And this post? Amazing. Just like you.
wow... and I thought I had sleeping issues. and I'm with gypsyjen... what movie was it? I only watch Hallmark channel for the cheesy Christmas movies in Dec. lol... maybe I should watch more often.
No regrets. Wow. I'm not sure I could say the same. Good for you, lady!
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